How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 00:49
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Why does Islam give a bad vibe?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Why has my ex moved on so fast after years of being together with me?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What do you think about Matt Gatz as an attorney general?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
How can couples reverse the buildup of resentment once they notice it?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
What I need from you?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Are you able to lie, even though you have Aspergers?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
That's it for today.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Have you made a female relative or friend squirt?
Making more friends is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What is the boldest and craziest thing your mother has ever done for you?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Does not procrastinate.
Ask yourself:
What is your analysis of Walter White from Breaking Bad?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Can you show pictures of your penis, big or small?
Procrastinates a lot.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Do Flat Earthers exist today? If so, where do they live?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Have you ever had a bad gut feeling about someone and it was right?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Are there many people here who suffer from schizophrenia?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.